Some days serve as reminders. Some days all it takes is a conversation or a picture or a song to remind you just how lucky you really are.
Today was that day.
Scratch that. I’ve been reminded of this daily for a while now. There’s just something about today though that’s making it that much more evident.
I’m struggling to come up with adequate words right now other than “I am one lucky, lucky lady.”
I have a family who has banded together more in these last few weeks than I ever knew was possible. There have been phone calls and texts and emails and visits and hugs and reminders of the unwavering support system that is in place for if any one of us falls. I am so grateful for them. Today my uncle finalizes his adoption of his wife’s children. HIS children. It’s been a long time coming, and I could not be more thrilled for their whole family. They live in Arizona, which is where I’m headed in October, and I CANNOT wait to see him, his family, and the rest of my aunts/uncles/cousins who live out there.
I have a job, an apartment, a car, and independence. I’m healthy and have the ability to workout and train for races for the lone fact that I like it. Though I’m incredibly sore today, it’s a great feeling to have been sweating for a reason OTHER than just walking out my front door.
My friends are THE best friends in the entire world.
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First names start with A. Middle names are Marie. We could start a club. |
They are there for me no matter what I need. They are who I want to spend time with. They are family. It took a while for my core group of friends to be built in St Louis, but now that it has been? I can’t imagine it being any other way. I am beyond fortunate to know such an incredible group of people.
And to top it all off, I have the love of my life to go home to every day. Some nights it’s my home, some nights it’s his home, and next spring it will be OUR home. Today I had a couple conversations that reinforced just how incredibly fortunate I am to be with someone who is as kind and thoughtful and generous as he is. He shows me he loves me as often as he tells me. He makes me feel like the most beautiful woman in the world. I honestly can’t imagine life without him. I am SO LUCKY to have him.
Nauseating sap aside, I’m so glad for days like this that I can look back on when a day isn’t so great.
It’s like I said earlier:
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Congrats on moving in! I am so happy for you guys and I can't wait to meet him!!
DUDE. This makes me happy. SO happy. SO glad that you are happy. See – there's a reason you never moved to Chicago!